Who Are You Really?

Identifying with our name, material possesions, relationships, job and so on, is the accepted normal in our society. For many, their contentment and happiness is directly linked to their identifications based on their do-ing and have-ing in order to gather more and experience more to BE more. Naturally, this creates a continuous loop of chasing and controlling people and situations to experience this sense of wholeness. 

Many people choose to live this way and that is perfectly fine. Each soul chooses what it wants to experience before incarnating and if that is a materialistic-based life, it is because that particular life creates the perfect learning experiences. In this exact moment, more people are becoming aware that there is more than just the physical aspects of life in this world, wether it is because of what they have read, heard or personally experienced. It does not matter. People on this 'ascension path' can relate that there must be something more than this body, this life, this world. Why do I have both pleansant and unpleasant emotions/thoughts beyond my control? The same applies to their way of thinking, which can be experienced as an uncontrollable train of thoughts, beliefs and ideas. 

When you start to look internally for answers, rather than external, you are awakening. Your soul wants to awaken during this incarnation to expand your consciousness. This means that unhealthy patterns, behaviors, beliefs, ideas, thoughts, memories, emotions and feelings on all levels and aspects of your Being can be transformed into what is authentic for you. The simple answer to this is LOVE. Love is the most powerful force in the Universe that heals and forgives all. I understand this may sound fluffy and woo-woo, but very likely you have only experienced conditional love on Earth. That is merely an observation rather than a judgement, because of our projections to the outside world.  We project all the time as we rely on our 5 senses (feel, hear, taste, smell and see) because our mind needs an output (the external experiences) by entering an input (our beliefs and so on). If we live from this framework, our happiness, joy and love are conditional. 

If you imagine right now what for you would be a perfect life, do you think nothing ever goes against your plans or wishes? Without a doubt, this will create many disappointments. Experiencing unconditional love does not mean all goes smooth and well. I call it tough love, because it does not sugarcoat the cake. It is raw and pure, with immense amounts of compassion, understanding and kindness. Instead, you have integrated all possible perceptions to be aware of all the reasons and solutions for that particular experience. You empathize with all people and all situations knowing that negativity in any form stems from a deeper underlying reason that I will generally refer to as trauma. These trauma's do not have to be huge such as sexual or physical abuse, torture, murder,... You could have developed a trauma when you were in your mom's womb because she may have thought she did not want you. Perhaps you were denied a toy you wanted and to calm you down your parents might have said they don't have enough money, true or not. The list can go on and on.

You are worthy and deserving of all good things in life and it is NOT your fault if you are living an unfulfilling life. This type of healing is profound and can seem messy (e.g. negative emotions or memories pop up) because  change is necessary , which make us feel uncomfortable. It does not have to be, it is mainly our resistance to change that creates these circumstances. When in doubt, always ask yourself: What would love do/choose?  This is the love beyond what you want, but what you need in order to live authentically and in absolute bliss. Therefore, loving yourself at any moment at any time, knowing you are doing your very best and feeling into your heart space will help you in making better choices for yourself and everyone else.

It is my responsability to provide you with a template to create these changes and it is your responsability to make the choice. Even if it takes a 1000 more times of falling into the same pattern, behavior, relationship or situation, it does not matter because all that matters is that you learn from those situations how to be and give more love. And you will, no matter how small the changes you implement in your life. It is my greatest purpose in life to assist you in the ascension of your Being so more love and light can be anchored into the entire planet for the wellbeing of all.